Well, I finally came out that I'm gay. Yep. I've been fighting against it for years, but now more than ever I feel that I get way more excited towards men than I do around women. I fantasize about good looking guys I see all the time, while I don't really do the same for the women. I just gotta accept it that I'm always going to be this way. I know it sounds like I'm a homophobe or something, but there's more than that. I'm married (soon not to be of course) and for some reason I've always been afraid of being gay. I can't explain it. So, while I'm dealing with the biggest decision of my life and it's consequences, be nice.
Nester
Make fun of you? Why would somebody make fun of you? Because they are ignorant and close minded that's why. I say Congrats to you, hun. Making a big choice like that can not have been easy in the least in light of what you have revealed here. I have always said one thing above all else in life and that is "One must ALWAYS be true to oneself". I support you in your choice and I hope nothing, but the best for you in your life from here on in.
Be perfectly honest dude? Congrats! I mean, coming out that is. I know what its like to really wrestle with that thought gnawing in the back of your mind until you're like "Who am I?" I was that way a few years ago too, so I know where that is coming from. Though sorry to hear about marriage and the like, I really do hope that the two of you can part on terms that are alright at least. I know how -sometimes- I hear about these things ending on a sour note, I hope that this isn't one of those times, and remember that we're here to talk if you need us for anything.
Besides, we would never make fun of you for being -you-; that'd be like making fun of people because they have a nose, or two eyes. Its just not something that should be done, because -everyone- is uniquely themselves :3 And this is -you-. So nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to apologize for. You are Nester, and that is enough for us all :D
Awww Nester! You're just too adorable! ^^ I think I should say, what much like Dracco and Cyn has said... be glad for who you are. Here you won't be made fun of... and if people do, come to me and I'll punch their lights out! :3 hehe <3 You just work your way into having one hell of an awesome new life~ Oh! That's exactly what you should think of it as... A new life change for you <3 And if you need a buddy, I am here to talk~ <33333
I would make fun of you.
Firstly, thank you everyone for your support. Without some of my close furry friends, I don't think I could've had the courage to do what I did. It was tough and confusing. With insight from so many close furs who know me, I was able to move forward with figuring myself out.
I had a great experience with a good rl friend of mine and he taught me to be happy with who I am and more importantly, understand my pan-sexuality and what that means. My wife, who loves me more than I know, was very understanding about this in the end and together we are slowly working it into our relationship. I'm more open than I was before, as is our relationship, and I no longer feel timid about being who I really am.
Thank you.
Back to this again.
So, yeah. That crap I said before, well, it didn't work out.
So if you see me in the chat acting weird or feeling sorry for myself, forget it. I'm moving to a new place soon and I'm changing a few things in my life for the better. I might be around more which is good I suppose. Anyway, love you all.
Nes